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Maybe it's not intentional, yet kids absorb the views of their parents, teachers, and authority figures. If they are receiving negative feedback on math, kids are apt to adopt the same views.
It's called math anxiety, and it is plaguing generations of Americans, negatively affecting our youth. Defined by Tobias and Weissbrod in 1980, math anxiety is the panic, helplessness, paralysis, and mental disorganization that arises among some people when they are required to solve a mathematical problem.1 It's an emotional response to math based on a past unpleasant experience which harms future learning.
So catch yourself the next time you say, "I'm not good with numbers." Even if what you're stating is how you feel from your own experience, it doesn't mean your kids will have the same experience. And parents certainly don't want to set their kids up for the same experience, especially if it was negative.
It's important for parents to help develop kids' confidence in their own abilities. We want them to believe they can do anything when they grow up! If we want our kids' attitudes toward math to change, parents and other influential figures may have to change their attitudes too. Or at the very least, be overly conscious and stop ourselves from saying, "I'm not good at math."
But there are also more proactive steps we can take to prevent math anxiety. Talking with kids about negative self-talk is also important. And though it seems obvious, being prepared is huge. Make sure your kids ask a lot of questions if they don't understand a math concept or procedure (in and outside the classroom), and get answers right away (to minimize the time they spend feeling they don't understand it).
It's also important for kids not to rely on memorization alone, but to make sure they "get it." Find ways to practice math as a part of daily life, just as many families incorporate reading activities. Studies have shown that students learn best when they're active rather than passive learners. To learn mathematics, students must be engaged in exploring, conjecturing, and thinking rather than engaged only in rote learning of rules and procedures.2
Parents can help create opportunities to teach thought-provoking math at home. For example, "How tall is that tree?" presents an interesting problem because it is too tall to measure. You might mention, "You know, I'm six feet tall. How does that help you think about the height of the tree?" As children explore problem solving with you, knowing that you're listening and willing to hear their ideas, it will help them gain confidence.3
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1. Haralson, Kay (2002). Math Anxiety: Myth or Monster. Clarksville, TN. Austin Peay State University.
2. Hopko, D., Ashcraft, J., Ruggiero, K., & Lewis, C. (1998) Journal of Anxiety Disorders,
Vol. 12, Issue 4, "Mathematics Anxiety and Working Memory: Support for the Existence of a Deficient Inhibition Mechanism."
3. Duckworth, E. (1987). The Having of Wonderful Ideas and Other Essays on Teaching and Learning. New York: Teacher's College Press.
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